Over the years I have been aware of a incompatibility between having sex and manufacture love. Recently I have come to see how far apart they are. In his book 'Indecent Practices and Erotic Trance: manufacture Sense of Tantra', John Ryan Haule questions our use of the term 'making love' for anything sexual.
During the first week of March I taught in Cape Town and spoke about this on every workshop. As I did I came to see how clear a notion 'making love' is. We all know what sex is and maybe even have had some taste of manufacture love. When I've spoken about the difference, everybody in the room has agreed.
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I've come to define sex as a goal oriented genital activity. The goal is orgasm for at least one of the habitancy involved, both if you're lucky and/or know what you're doing. manufacture love is a dissimilar story. The words themselves tell us that we're going to make something, we're going to create it or build it, or mix the ingredients to get something more or dissimilar than when we began.
And because it's love that we're making, our hearts are involved.
Our mouths, our hands, our genitals, our bodies come to be a channel to express that love.
This tells us that there's an intention involved. We're not unconscious of what we're doing, it's not out of habit, as is often the case with sex. We're aware and awake. We're creating something between us, or just with ourselves, that wasn't there before. This act of creation is undoubtedly provocative because it's done with pleasure, in the name of pleasure.
It soldiery us to use aspects of our bodies and minds that we wouldn't commonly bring to a sexual encounter. We have to take time to make love, get the aggregate right, give it time to brew and bake, to heat and settle.
So we slow down from the speed of the world, we can breathe. And we're saying I'm important, you're important, what we have is important. We have value. In valuing we are nourished.
And in manufacture love we're able to feel beautiful, anything the body looks like. If you can give and receive satisfaction at this level, you will feel beautiful. Think about the relief and peace you'll feel accepting yourself because somebody, even yourself, loves you. Now before you jump down my throat and say, 'What about sex?'
Sex is wonderful, orgasms are great! I teach habitancy how to have best sex, how to have awesome 20 minuscule orgasms. But if sex is all there is, we have a problem. Because it's not enough.
If sex is all there is we will get bored, that is guaranteed. Once we've done everything we possibly can, with every position, every orifice, once, twice, ten times. We will get bored and look for new levels of excitement elsewhere, or stop having sex. What about those not in a relationship? You're not excluded from manufacture love. This doesn't mean orgasm oriented masturbation. It means a sensual exploration of your body, your face, allowing your heart and your genitals to talk to each other, allowing your hands to express your hearts love to your body, feeling and touching your own beauty.
Being open to your own self. For you are a sexual and sensual being in your own right, regardless of either you're in a relationship or not. You can make gorgeous love to and with yourself. Wonderfully, gently, passionately. Are sex and manufacture love exclusive? Of procedure not, you can make sexual love. Having come to be aware of this incompatibility and talking about in the massage and touch workshops, it's marvelous to see how these experiences can come to be acts of love-making, where something real and tangible is made. It's also been anticipated to watch habitancy make love to themselves and not even touch their genitals on 'Awakening the Sacred Fire', a journey into your own sexuality.
In one of his songs, Nat King Cole sings about, 'a strange, enchanted boy', who teaches that, 'the greatest gift you'll ever learn,
Is to love, and be loved in return.'
Let's Make Love!
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